Love yourself

according to me, normally, a girl always want to look beautiful and perfect...
in some case, they want to be as pretty as possible to get the guy they're in love with...
but sometimes they forget who they are...
they push themselves, even force themselves to do everything that actually, hurt temselves


here i found a really great song...
the title is WHO YOU ARE, from Jessie J


i love the lyrics and i feel like i must share this especially to all girls in the world,
who ever force themselves doing anything for actually nothing...


here's the lyrics...


I stare at my reflection in the mirror:
"Why am I doing this to myself?"
Losing my mind on a tiny error,
I nearly left the real me on the shelf.
No, no, no, no, no...


Don't lose who you are in the blur of the stars!
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
It's okay not to be okay.
Sometimes it's hard to follow your heart.
Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
Just be true to who you are!
(who you are [x11])


Brushing my hair, do I look perfect?
I forgot what to do to fit the mold, yeah!
The more I try the less it's working, yeah
'Cause everything inside me screams
No, no, no, no, no...


Don't lose who you are in the blur of the stars!
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
It's okay not to be okay.
Sometimes it's hard to follow your heart.
But tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
There's nothing wrong with who you are!


Yes, no's, egos, fake shows, like WHOA!
Just go, and leave me alone!
Real talk, real life, good love, goodnight,
With a smile, that's my home!
That's my home, no...


No, no, no, no, no...
Don't lose who you are in the blur of the stars!
Seeing is deceiving, dreaming is believing,
It's okay not to be okay...
Sometimes it's hard to follow your heart.
Tears don't mean you're losing, everybody's bruising,
Just be true to who you are!
Yeah yeah yeah

when i'm listening to this song, i just feel that this song is so damn true...

in fact, we have to love ourselves first, before we decided to love someone else...

otherwise, we can't fully understand what love means...